If there’s one thing I’ve learned as a stay-at-home mom of two, it’s that keeping a house clean with kids around is a full-time job in itself. Some days, it feels like I’m tidying up the same mess five times in a row. But instead of stressing myself out trying to do it all alone, I’ve learned that the best way to stay on top of things is to get the kids involved!
Now, I know what you’re thinking—it’s easier to just do it myself! And honestly? Sometimes that’s true. But getting your kids involved in cleaning not only lightens your load, it also teaches them responsibility, independence, and the importance of taking care of their space.
The key is to make it fun, age-appropriate, and part of their daily routine. Let’s be real—kids aren’t naturally excited about cleaning, but with the right approach (and a few fun tools), they’ll be wiping, sweeping, and organizing like little pros in no time!
1. Set the Right Expectations
First things first—understand that kids aren’t going to clean like we do. Their version of “clean” might not be perfect, and that’s okay! The goal is to teach them the habit of cleaning, not perfection.
Here are a few ways to set them up for success:
Give them specific tasks – Instead of saying “Clean your room,” try “Put your toys in the bin and make your bed.” Clear instructions make all the difference.
Start small – Younger kids can handle simple jobs like wiping tables or putting laundry in the hamper. As they get older, you can introduce more responsibility.
Model the behavior – If they see you cleaning regularly, they’ll naturally want to join in. (Even if it’s just to copy you!)
2. Make It Fun and Engaging
Cleaning doesn’t have to feel like a chore—turn it into a game, challenge, or fun activity to keep your little ones motivated.
Beat the Timer – Set a 5-minute timer and challenge them to clean up as much as they can before it goes off. This is great for quick toy pick-ups!
Cleaning Dance Party – Blast their favorite songs and let them dance while they clean. (Trust me, cleaning the kitchen to a good playlist is way more fun!)
Sticker Chart or Reward System – Give them a sticker or small reward for completing chores consistently. (My printable Chore Chart Template is perfect for this—more on that below!)
3. Give Them Their Own Kid-Sized Cleaning Tools
Let’s be honest—kids love feeling like “big kids.” One of the easiest ways to get them involved is to give them their own mini cleaning tools so they feel like part of the process.
A few kid-friendly cleaning tools that make a big difference:
Kid’s Cleaning Set – A child-sized broom, mop, and duster make them feel like they have an important role. (You can grab this cute kids’ cleaning set on Amazon that looks just like the real thing, even includes a spray bottle and microfiber cloths!)
Reusable Kid-Sized Gloves – Kids love putting on gloves to “protect their hands” while they help clean. It makes them feel official!
Giving kids their own tools makes cleaning feel more like playtime instead of work!
4. Use Visuals to Keep Them on Track
Let’s be real—kids thrive on structure and reminders. Instead of repeating yourself a hundred times (we’ve all been there), try using visual tools to help them understand their tasks.
My Printable Kids’ Daily Planner and Chore Chart are a great way to create a cleaning routine that actually sticks.
Daily Planner Template – Helps kids stay on track with their morning and evening routines. They’ll know exactly when it’s time to clean up.
Chore Chart Template – Makes it easy to assign tasks and track their progress in a fun way.
These printables help your kids take responsibility for their own tasks without constant reminders from you. (And let’s be honest—that alone is priceless!)
5. Make Cleaning a Family Activity
Kids are more likely to clean if they see it as something the whole family does together instead of just a “Mom job.” Try setting a family cleaning time where everyone pitches in for 10–15 minutes a day.
Ways to make it work:
Assign tasks based on age – Toddlers can put toys away, preschoolers can dust, and older kids can wipe counters or sweep.
Work as a team – Instead of cleaning separately, tackle a room together and make it a bonding activity.
Celebrate your clean space – After a big cleaning session, take a moment to appreciate how nice everything looks. Compliment your kids on their hard work!
6. Use Cleaning Cards to Keep Things Fun
If your kids get bored easily (because let’s be real, they will), my Printable Cleaning Cards are a game-changer.
These cards turn cleaning into a fun, interactive activity by giving kids specific tasks in a way that’s easy to follow.
How they work:
- Each card has a simple cleaning task like “Wipe down and polish tables” or “Organize shoes in the entryway.” There’s 5 different categories (Kitchen, Living Area, Bathroom, Bedroom, and Miscellaneous).
- You can let kids pick a card at random or assign specific tasks.
- They make cleaning feel less overwhelming and more like a game!
Kids love having a visual guide that tells them what to do next. Plus, it gives them a sense of independence and ownership over their chores.
Grab my Printable Cleaning Cards here and make cleaning way more fun for the whole family!
Getting kids involved in cleaning isn’t about making everything perfect—it’s about teaching them responsibility, teamwork, and the value of a clean space. The earlier they start, the easier it becomes a natural habit.
So, if you’re tired of doing it all yourself (been there!), try these tips to make cleaning a fun and manageable part of your kids’ routine. And don’t forget to grab my Printable Cleaning Cards and Kids’ Daily Planner and Chore Chart Templates to keep them on track!
What are some of your favorite ways to get your kids involved in cleaning? Let me know in the comments!